Worship Leader Ashley Kennedy Makdad, Worship Associate Nate Makdad, and pianist Gary Rossi. Why do we sometimes stay in situations long after we know they no longer serve us? From relationships and careers to wars and public policy, humans often cling to decisions simply because we’ve already invested time, money, or emotion. Psychologists call this the sunken cost fallacy — the mistaken belief that past investments justify continued commitment, even when it’s clear we should walk away. In this service, we’ll reflect on what keeps us stuck, the deeper fears behind our attachment to “what’s already been spent,” and how spiritual practices can give us the courage to let go, cut our losses, and move forward with intention.
Letting Go: Breaking Free from the Sunken Cost Fallacy